10:29 am - Fri, Aug 30, 2013
What tastes like peanut butter and chocolate threw a party, invited me and then told me that we were going to be best friends forever?

What tastes like peanut butter and chocolate threw a party, invited me and then told me that we were going to be best friends forever?

10:58 pm - Sat, Aug 10, 2013
  • Him: Darker the berry, sweeter the juice.
  • Me: Does that mean I'm sour?!?!??!?
2:25 pm - Mon, Aug 5, 2013
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Yes. Yes. YES!

3:11 pm - Wed, Jul 24, 2013
Photo Credit: Flickr.com/hsld
Love Is Boring.
Take one look at Tumblr and you will immediately understand how unrealistic many of our views of love are. We want a lot. We want the goosebumps, the champagne, the super charged doing it, the I-can’t-stand-it-one-more-second-without-you passion. And we want it Every. Day. All ups, no downs.
Look at Sex and The City. Those grown women were all shades of total batshit crazy. Big was a complete dickhole to Carrie, then to his wife and then to Carrie again. But he was so confusing and passionate that we all ate it right up, bought the box set AND saw all three movies…even though the last one was pretty culturally insensitive and the campiest movie made since Glitter. I swear, if I’m in my 40s and still making the same dumb mistakes I’m making now, I’m getting a sex change and calling it a day. Being a guy wouldn’t make everything magically better, but, at least, I would be making slightly different mistakes.
I could probably write an entire post about how Carrie is the worst female heroine. In the last season, she has to go to Big’s office for financial advice, because she is losing her apartment…because she doesn’t know how to balance a checkbook or has never even tried to save any money…or something horrifying like that. She might be “making it on her own” in terms of being unmarried, but she is far from being independent.
And I know this. I recognize that wanting the sort of love that makes you lose your breath, smile when you catch yourself thinking of the other person, feel like you’re the only people in a crowded room, etc, is a somewhat immature way of viewing things. I get that. Truly. But…
I WANT TO FEEL ALL THE THINGS!
I go through stages of believing that romantic love is a real thing and thinking it’s total crap. I think that’s because I’m still trying to understand what love means. Most examples that I’ve seen have gotten it really wrong. I don’t want to be part of that group. I want that extra piece. That extraordinary love. That real love. Ya know…if there is such a thing.
I read this fantastic piece by Lisa Jo Baker this morning. She describes her love as an “ordinary” type of love, which is an idea I found totally compelling. Love is boring in that you find it in mundane places. She wrote that she found love in her husband’s willingness to be there for her. Straight and simple.

This ordinary love that wakes up with bad breath and crease marks on its cheeks and is the daily bread that sustains across time zones and countries and cultures and the exhaustion of trying to figure out how to be a parent and a grown up and somebody’s forever. - Lisa Jo Baker, When You Think Your Love Story Is Boring

THAT is all of the things.
Even if love is boring, love is still a beautiful, beautiful thing. Love is the ability to just “be” in a moment together. It’s relying on and being relied on. It’s trusting and being trusted. Love is the novel. Passion is the episode. It’s that person who believes you are so valuable that they want to spend the rest of their life with you. And you are a reflection of that worth.
Love is finding that mutual weirdness and going with it. Releasing yourself to the “ordinary” may just make you extraordinary.
Read more at www.accidentallysexy.com

Photo Credit: Flickr.com/hsld

Love Is Boring.

Take one look at Tumblr and you will immediately understand how unrealistic many of our views of love are. We want a lot. We want the goosebumps, the champagne, the super charged doing it, the I-can’t-stand-it-one-more-second-without-you passion. And we want it Every. Day. All ups, no downs.

Look at Sex and The City. Those grown women were all shades of total batshit crazy. Big was a complete dickhole to Carrie, then to his wife and then to Carrie again. But he was so confusing and passionate that we all ate it right up, bought the box set AND saw all three movies…even though the last one was pretty culturally insensitive and the campiest movie made since Glitter. I swear, if I’m in my 40s and still making the same dumb mistakes I’m making now, I’m getting a sex change and calling it a day. Being a guy wouldn’t make everything magically better, but, at least, I would be making slightly different mistakes.

I could probably write an entire post about how Carrie is the worst female heroine. In the last season, she has to go to Big’s office for financial advice, because she is losing her apartment…because she doesn’t know how to balance a checkbook or has never even tried to save any money…or something horrifying like that. She might be “making it on her own” in terms of being unmarried, but she is far from being independent.

And I know this. I recognize that wanting the sort of love that makes you lose your breath, smile when you catch yourself thinking of the other person, feel like you’re the only people in a crowded room, etc, is a somewhat immature way of viewing things. I get that. Truly. But…

I WANT TO FEEL ALL THE THINGS!

I go through stages of believing that romantic love is a real thing and thinking it’s total crap. I think that’s because I’m still trying to understand what love means. Most examples that I’ve seen have gotten it really wrong. I don’t want to be part of that group. I want that extra piece. That extraordinary love. That real love. Ya know…if there is such a thing.

I read this fantastic piece by Lisa Jo Baker this morning. She describes her love as an “ordinary” type of love, which is an idea I found totally compelling. Love is boring in that you find it in mundane places. She wrote that she found love in her husband’s willingness to be there for her. Straight and simple.

This ordinary love that wakes up with bad breath and crease marks on its cheeks and is the daily bread that sustains across time zones and countries and cultures and the exhaustion of trying to figure out how to be a parent and a grown up and somebody’s forever. - Lisa Jo Baker, When You Think Your Love Story Is Boring

THAT is all of the things.

Even if love is boring, love is still a beautiful, beautiful thing. Love is the ability to just “be” in a moment together. It’s relying on and being relied on. It’s trusting and being trusted. Love is the novel. Passion is the episode. It’s that person who believes you are so valuable that they want to spend the rest of their life with you. And you are a reflection of that worth.

Love is finding that mutual weirdness and going with it. Releasing yourself to the “ordinary” may just make you extraordinary.

Read more at www.accidentallysexy.com

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When people say, ‘Don’t be afraid to be the old Tegan and Sara,’ we’re like, ‘Fuck those bitches!’
We chat with Tegan and Sara. Read it here. (via papermag)
7:48 pm - Sun, Jul 21, 2013
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allthingseurope:

Karpathos, Greece (by Patrick Giardina)

allthingseurope:

Karpathos, Greece (by Patrick Giardina)

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4:38 pm - Fri, Jul 19, 2013

Video from Billy Dec here: http://undergroundchi.wpengine.com/Anna/

8:44 am - Sun, Jul 14, 2013
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  • Me: Is it too early to buy alcohol.
  • Shopkeeper: ...
  • Me: ...I mean legally.
3:52 pm - Wed, Jul 10, 2013
3:51 pm
Full story here: http://www.chicagonow.com/accidentally-sexy/2013/07/everybodys-mad-that-justin-bieber-touched-the-stanley-cup/
Justin Bieber touched the Stanley Cup and everybody is all mad about it. 
I touched the cup too. Are you going to cry about it?

Full story here: http://www.chicagonow.com/accidentally-sexy/2013/07/everybodys-mad-that-justin-bieber-touched-the-stanley-cup/

Justin Bieber touched the Stanley Cup and everybody is all mad about it. 

I touched the cup too. Are you going to cry about it?

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